Is Not
Hatred
The accusation of antisemitism works by making the conversation about the speaker's character rather than the documented facts. Once you are defending yourself against the charge, you have lost — because the facts never got heard.
The counter is not to defend yourself. It is to name the move — clearly and calmly: "You've changed the subject from what Israel is doing to what you think of me. I'd like to talk about what Israel is doing."
Applying the same moral standards to Israel that you apply to every other state on earth is called universalism. Its opposite — the idea that one state is exempt from the rules that apply to everyone else — has a name too. And it is not the critics of Israel who are practicing it.
Antisemitism is real. It must be fought without compromise. Using it as a shield to deflect from documented war crimes is not fighting antisemitism. It is exploiting it — and that exploitation cheapens both the word and the real suffering it was coined to describe.